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November 2004
 


Heritage of Pilgrim Endeavor
 

WHERE DOES YOUR STRENGTH COME FROM?

When I get requests to do devotions, first I think of my 4 favorite verses, and as I look at each of them this time, I see a common bond.

But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint. Isaiah 40:31….God is there for you, and it is His strength that gets you through all the obstacles that you might encounter.

Then I turn to another verse, a very special verse for me and friends of mine, I can to all things through him who gives me strength. Philippians 4:13….. What comfort to know that in any situation, if you turn to God, he will give you the strength to get through it. I often think of that verse when I’m nervous, unsure, or when I need encouragement, and I know I can do it because of Him.

 
If you have faith as small as a mustard seed….nothing will be impossible for you. Matthew 7:20 It is amazing that a little tiny seed grows into such a large tree. Like faith, it starts out small and grows and grows and grows. No matter how small your faith, nothing is impossible for you, as long as you have faith.

Each of these verses I have used many times as illustrations for the youth that I have worked with over the years. Often during a difficult situation or when they have to be on stage, all I need to say is "Philippians 4:13" and they know they will be able to get through it because God gives them the strength. I have given out Mustard Seed pins to youth as an illustration of how tiny the seed is and how small their faith can start out and how big it can grow.

The last verse, also from Philippians, is I thank my God every time I remember you. Philippians 1:3. This became special to me years ago at one of the NAPF conferences I attended. I have used it often and DO thank God every time I remember each and every one of the lives that have touched me and I may have touched through the NACCC. Without God’s strength and friends I have made through Him, life would be more difficult.

Joanne Simpson, HOPE Co-Director

H.O.P.E.

Heritage Of Pilgrim Endeavors.

Help Out People Everywhere.

Hands Over Praise Everyday.

H
ammering Obstacles People Endure.

What does H.O.P.E. mean to you? In the face of despair, there is HOPE. At the time of blessings, there is HOPE. In the wee hours before dawn, there is HOPE. At the time of crisis, there is HOPE.

I am compiling articles of when HOPE has affected people most. If you have a story of HOPE, a memory of HOPE, some advice for the HOPEless, or encouragement for the HOPEful, please send it to Amy Hicks. These stories are sure to remind us the HOPE is one thing we always have.

Amy Hicks

Happy 40th Birthday HOPE
Melissa Schelling HOPE President

I am sure most of you didn’t know that this past June 2004, while we were all in Rhode Island, it was HOPE’s 40th birthday. Forty years ago HOPE was first envisioned in Wichita, Kansas at an NAPF Conference. Back then there was only NAPF or the Adult Conference, there was really nothing geared towards the college age group. That was until three people sat down and thought about what could be done to give the college-aged group a place to gather together. Those three people where David Gray (yes this is Doug Gray’s, speaker from HOPE 2004, father), Betsey Gray Kenworthy, and Burkett Cree. They were aware that there needed to be a place for college aged people to meet together, knowing they weren’t in high school any more and they weren’t ready for the adult meetings. It needed to be a place to call their own, where they could share their concerns about their daily life and their Christian struggles. They wanted this place to provide ways to continue in fellowship, encourage one another in their faith as Congregationalist Christians, and find new ways of expressing their faith in service to others. They also wanted to bridge the gap between the high school graduates and the older adult members and provide leadership to NAPF. So HOPE was discovered.

First it needed a name, the same night that all of this was in the works the three founders thought of the name H.O.P.E. Each letter stands for it’s own explanation. H = Heritage, which acknowledges our roots in Christian faith. O = of (that’s pretty self explanatory). P = Pilgrim, which denotes our adventurous attitude. E = Endeavor, which reminds us again of our roots in Christian Endeavors (it also shows that being a young Congregational Christian takes an effort). Later on came the Bible verse that would be the slogan for HOPE. It is found in Hebrews 6:19, "We have this HOPE as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure". Finally the idea was brought to the adults and the youth sub committee. The idea was a hit and HOPE was a new group ready to face the world.

Who knew that forty years down the road HOPE would still be functioning as planned. It is still a place where college age people can come and share their experiences. We come from all over the country but in one way or another we all can relate to each other. It is a place where for four days we don’t have to deal with the challenges and harshness of reality. HOPE is a place where you can’t help but be surrounded by the Spirit. HOPE is a family!! It is at HOPE where we are all surrounded by love and friendship. It is the kind of love that is pure and heartfelt. HOPE is a place where you meet your life long friends, friends who love you for who you are. I have met some of my best friends at HOPE and NAPF. They will be with me for the rest of my life and if I ever need them they will be there. I love them more than they will ever know and they are so special in my life. Besides, there aren’t many places where you can see someone for four days, then not see them for a year or so and still have the same connection as if you never left each other’s side. We are truly lucky to have a place like this where we can feel like we are home when we arrive. Though we all may not know what God has planned for us in the future, and we might not even know what road we are lead to take we always know there is a place for us. God has a purpose for each one of us and I know he has good things in line for us all! We have been blessed with a place like HOPE and friends there who we call our family. Besides if we ever get lost we can always follow the road back home to HOPE. It will always be waiting for us, and if you ever get lost you can just follow the yellow brick road to Kansas for HOPE 2005 (Sorry I had to make my reference to The Wizard of OZ, it is my favorite movie and it works since we will be in Kansas next year).

Here’s to another 40 years of HOPE…

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As a Michigan resident I was brought into Pf at an early age. Here in Michigan we have a camp for younger P.F.ers, my first year was a bit early, both my parents were councilors and my sister a camper (I went with my family). I have been doing the PF/HOPE thing ever since. When I was asked to write this ‘story’ I was having trouble deciding how to structure it, I asked if they simply wanted a comparison between HOPE and PF, and I was told that would do. The trouble with that, is there really isn’t a difference other than age and a lot of the friendships flow deeper in HOPE. So I am still kinda trying to decide how to say this, but then again I guess it is a little too late since I am already knee deep in the article. As a youngun I found PF and the friendships that came a long with it remarkable and I was amazed that other denominations and such hadn’t done anything similar. As the years progressed I grew in faith and grew with my friends, then HOPE came along, It is great. I am not sure how other states do it, but in Michigan we (HOPErs) try to meet on a state level once a month (the Plymouth Cong. was trying to get a city of Lansing group going for a while) and as I moved through/into HOPE my skepticism about the program was put to bed, HOPE is fantastic and the friends are great. The best part about HOPE is the range of ages and walks of life everyone comes from. I am having a blast at HOPE and hope (pun not intended) to continue so. And remember, YOU CAN DO IT!

Rob Boes!

 

ELECTRONIC ANANIAS

The December 2004 issue of Ananias will be on the NACCC Website. You will receive a notification that it is there and the location will be e-mailed to you. Please make sure the NACCC office has your e-mail address if you have changed addresses since last year’s HOPE in Rhode Island. Or, if you haven’t been in touch for awhile, you will want to make sure the office has your correct address, also.

Send any corrections to Melissa Schelling at: TinyHandsLissa@aol.com. Melissa will make sure the office is aware of the address change.

I’d like to also mention the forum on the NA site (www.naccc.org). There are HOPE and NAPF forums (chat rooms) for you. It’s a great way to contact some of your friends in the NACCC.

Karen Frazzell, Director of Youth Ministries

NACCC Office - Oak Creek, WI


My First HOPE

When I went to HOPE this past year, I went with a negative attitude. I didn’t want to be there, I felt it was a waste of my time. I had just graduated from high school and all I wanted to do that summer was party and hang out with friends. Why would I, an Atheist, want to go to a place where all they were going to do was preach to me? That did not sound like a place I wanted to spend part of my summer. I could never have guessed how wrong my assumptions would be.

The first night of HOPE I stood back and watched. I was shy and very uncomfortable. I felt that I was out of place. This wasn’t the type of environment I was used too. Everyone was happy and positive. I, on the other hand, was the total opposite. We had worship and then we all met and introduced ourselves. I finally started to feel accepted in my small group. We started talking about our struggles and how life was back home and I told them about my best friend Blake and how he was murdered a few months back. I explained how much I missed him and how I still have a hard time believing he’s really gone. I felt someone’s loving arms wrap around me. It scared me at first, so I pulled away. I wasn’t used to getting hugs but that hug made me realize that I was safe. It was okay to talk about how I felt. It was weird, but I knew then I could trust these people.

HOPE did something to me that can’t be explained. It was magic! Not only did I have a great time and meet fabulous people, I found God. I made a major transition when I was there. I turned my negativity into something positive. I was so happy! I doubt that I have ever been that happy in my entire life. HOPE was the best thing that ever happened to me. I love God so much now, and I try to find as many things to do to serve him better each day. I thank him everyday for my experience and I pray that more and more people can visit HOPE and have the same experience that I did. It changed my life for the better.

By: Crystal Newton

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HOPE RECAP 2004

And He said, "How shall we picture the kingdom of God, or by what parable shall we present it? It is like a mustard seed, which is the smallest seed you plant in the ground. Yet when planted, it grows and becomes the largest of all the garden plants, with such big branches that the birds of the air can perch in its shade." Mark 4:31-32

This year’s speaker Reverend Doug Gray from Beloit, Wisconsin led our conference on the message of Mark 4:31-32. Through the week we learned how from small seeds we can accomplish big deeds.

The first day of HOPE was spent reuniting with our old friends, and welcoming new people to the HOPE family. Through ice-breaker activities and small group discussions we got to know each other better. Our study that day was based on the idea of planting our small seeds of faith in the soil.

On Sunday our worship, lectures and discussions focused on how to develop a closer relationship with the Lord. Light is required for all growth, like plants use sunlight we should use the "Light of the World" to cultivate our spiritual growth. Using John 8:12 for inspiration we studied how His light acts in our life, and how to incorporate it more into our lives. Along with light, water is necessary for growth and development. Through the theme of John 4:4-15, Doug taught us how our relationship with the Lord can act as water for our parched souls. Doug taught us what the "Kingdom of God" means according to the scripture, and how we can, through the Living Water and our good deeds, grow to reach it.

Sunday evening we joined together with the adults and the NAPF youth for an intergenerational time. We enjoyed a BBQ, and played volleyball, basketball and Frisbee before gathering to worship. The band Souled Out inspired us with music, and Kenny Meehan delivered the message during the worship service about freedom and how his faith has changed and grown since fighting in the war in Iraq. We all enjoyed being able to spend some time, share a meal, and worship with the other groups. On "Mission-Day Monday" we focused on putting our gifts and "seeds" to work. NAPF and HOPE volunteered in the community through visiting the sick and elderly at nursing homes, or cleaning up local streets and parks. When we met for prayer and lectures at the end of the day, you could see the satisfaction in everyone’s tired faces knowing they had helped the people of greater Kingston, Rhode Island. That evening’s lecture and discussion focused on the theme of Mark 4:26-29, and how our faith has grown through our life, and how we can continue to nurture its growth. This discussion was fitting for us, after we spent our day spreading our seeds of good will.

Our final day was spent learning how we could leave HOPE to go on to great deeds. Doug taught us that through the growing experiences of our day to day lives, we can grow in His mercy. We learned to think of the Kingdom of God as a seed in which we are the soil. When we walk in The Way, we share God’s joy and promote that growth. We learned that God has great deeds for all of us to do, and we left HOPE feeling ready and able to do His work. We now have the tools we need, and more importantly great friends to support us along the way.

Katherine Gatti

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Where am I headed in life? What is my purpose? Is this what God wants me to be doing? For two years I’ve been asking myself this. I still don’t know the answer. Yet strangely I feel like I’m headed down the right path.

Well, was I really on the wrong path? No, I may; at times, have felt that I was. However looking back I can see that it was. Two and a half years ago I graduated from high school. At that point every good friend of mine had big plans for their future and was headed off the college. I on the other hand; had no clue and no plans to go to school.

I found a job in a restaurant, then also as a high school swim coach, and finally another restaurant job on top of everything. One year turned into two years which until a couple weeks ago looked like it was turning into three years.

After arriving home from a lengthy summer vacation I discovered a letter sent to my house at the beginning of August stating that I was accepted to college. This had been the one place the past two years I thought I should have been instead of hosting in a restaurant.

A world wind of events then happened. For example applying for classes, placement tests, and figuring out a work schedule around school. Just recently I finally had a chance to look back on where I’ve come from. You know what I found?

I realized that I could not have gone to college without experiencing what God had opened up for me to experience the last two years. I’ve learned about working in the real world. Earning and saving money to pay car insurance cell phone bills, etc. I’ve seen both sides of the sport I love. Going from an athlete in high school; to a coach of a high school team. More importantly, I’ve made valuable friendships that I would of never made going straight to school.

No matter what point you are at in your life. No matter what your daily happenings are. If you’re happy in the place your life has taken you or you think you’re headed down the wrong path. Just trust that God has you headed the right way because I believe no matter what; he does. The hard occurrences in one’s life that seem difficult to go through or even pointless to attempt; may just be preparation God has planned for you to reach the place you want to be at.

Trust in the Lord and do good. Then you will live safely in the land and prosper.
–Psalm 37:3

Paul Lewis, HOPE Secretary

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The new Commission for Youth Ministry

The Youth Subcommittee is now the Commission for Youth Ministry (CYM). We still oversee HOPE and NAPF, we still support the YLR and PMV, but now we have a few more responsibilities to the local youth groups. We are here to encourage and assist them in their development of vibrant and effective witnesses of Christ in Congregational ways (our mission statement). It is a wonderful challenge for the 8 of us because we want the church youth programs to succeed in providing opportunities for the youth to thrive personally, spiritually and socially.

We are responsible for offering those opportunities nationally; we take our "job" to heart. We feel that we are asked to be in this position because we respect and care for the young members of our church as well as their adult leaders. We take our position very seriously and sometimes that means we have to do things that we don’t want to.

This fall we had to make a difficult decision. After we discussed, shared emotions, reviewed options and most importantly prayed, we made the decision to release Alissa Gorman from her HOPE officer and Ananias Editor responsibilities. I informed Alissa of the CYM’s decision this week. I pray that you will understand that decision. If you would like to share some of your feelings about this issue, you are more than welcome to contact me.

HOPE has a reputation for caring deeply about those attending the conferences and I want that to continue. I felt that is was very important to let you all know so you can pray for Alissa, as well as for the officers and co-directors so they can develop a Christ centered conference for you to experience.

With open arms,  Wendy Brown
Chair of Commission for Youth Ministry
wbrownfcc@sbcglobal.net


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Who wants a HINGEBUFFEDBINGER?
by Jenny Rouble, Commission on Youth Ministries

It is always nice to catch your attention right from the start. I want to tell you where I first got my HINGEBUFFEDBINGER. I have been a part of a youth group since I was in 6th grade. But it wasn’t until I graduated from High School and became an adult that I found my HINGE or connection to being a youth leader. I attended a conference called the Youth leaders Retreat. We will call it the YLR. This was my new HINGE to youth and a new connection with Christ.

The retreat began and the people there and all of the new friends I had made enlightened me. The speaker was dynamic and seemed to speak directly to me. I realized that God had me here for a purpose and it wasn’t something that I was prepared for, it was my turn to be a youth leader. I began to feel BUFFED in my faith and was given a renewed strength by God.

By the end of the retreat after talking to many other people and doing a lot of praying I was hit with the BINGER or stung by the "I can’t wait to go home and teach what I have learned here" bug. What a great feeling that was! God is good!

It is seven years later and I have been working with the youth ever since. I always look back and that first YLR and have been to several since to renew my strength as a leader and keep those friendships that I have had for a lifetime.

So what is your HINGEBUFFEDBINGER? You can find it at the YLR 2005! The dates are set at March 4-6. The retreat is at Wonderland Conference Center in Camp Lake WI. Who should join us? Volunteer and professional youth leaders, Sunday School superintendents, anyone who works with children and youth at their church or anyone interested in being a counselor or counselor in training (CIT) at NAPF or a small group leader at HOPE. Please contact Karen Frazzell at the NA office 800-262-1620 with questions or for registration forms. Some scholarship money is available. SEE YOU THERE!